The Secret Technique To Get Your Ex To Return Your Calls
One of the biggest problems when trying to get back in touch with your ex is quite simply that they won't return your calls.
Now, before we get too far into this one, let me offer a word of warning... don't read this article and then simply call your ex... or leave a text... or send an email.
This technique has to be used as part of an overall strategy that's been well planned and thought out. More of that later.
But for now let me answer the question, "Are there 'magic' words you can use to get your ex to return your phone calls?"
Sounds hard to believe but the simple answer is... "Yes, there are words that will make your ex feel almost compelled to return your call".
Cool huh!
I am going to share this with you because this is one of the biggest problems people just like you have when they're are trying to put their relationship back together.
So I am going to share with you exactly how you can get your ex to return your phone call, text or email... but please do not use this technique alone, without an 'overall' plan or strategy... you may damage your relationship more than if they never returned your call.
Before we get into the actual words that work, here are some that almost never work... and even worse, will put you in an awful 'psychological' position.
These usually fall into 2 categories...
The plead - Where you ask your ex to "Please, please call me. This is the 3rd time I've called you. Please, I have to talk to you."
The emergency - "This is an emergency. Please call me as soon as you get this."
Now, I think you can see what's wrong with both of those approaches...
So, I won't bore you with explanations. suffice to say... don't use them under any circumstances!
OK, back to business...
Two of the most powerful forces in the human mind are...
Curiosity...
And Self Interest
Now... here's the big secret...
When you combine the two, you have a recipe that'll quite literally work 'magic'!
So let's look at what you can say that'll work just about every time.
Leave a message like this, in a friendly tone, "Hi Sue. Keith here. I wanted to let you know I appreciate what you did for me the other day. Call me because I'd like to thank you in person." (Obviously substitute your name and that of your ex and use words or phrases you'd normally use yourself. The point is, make it friendly and don't say too much).
Do you see how the message above uses BOTH curiosity and self interest?
No way will your ex be able to resist!
They'll be asking themselves, "What did I do?" and "What do they appreciate?"
This will really get your ex thinking. And they'll feel good because it's a positive message.
Now... before you call you need set up the situation that enables you to tell your ex that you appreciate what they did.
It can be any small thing... but needs to be plausible. Sorry, but you'll have to work on this yourself!
But more importantly...
Please have an underlying strategy before you call.
If you apply this technique with no underlying strategy and they call you back you can do more DAMAGE than good if you don't handle it correctly.
OK, what I'm saying is this...
What you do before, during and after you get them to return your call is more important than getting them to return your call.
Read that again... it's vitally important!
Make sense?
If you want to get back with you ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend and you want to develop a strategy to do just that... read "The Magic Of Making Up by T. W. Jackson" right now... it's by far the best place to start.
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